Snuggling

 

Hey there Charlotte —

As you know, cats can be some of the snuggliest creatures on the planet.

Even if your furry pal isn’t the most affectionate of felines — if given enough time and encouragement, ANY kitty can become a total lap cat.

There are 3 essential reasons for this…

Firstly, your kitty and felines of all types (wild, feral, and domestic) will be snuggly with their family members.

Grooming you, kneading, and simply curling up for a nap on your lap is common behavior when your cat sees you as family.

Also, your furry pal just loves to be warm and cozy, whether it’s curling up in front of the fireplace, napping in the sun…

Or snuggling up with you on the sofa.

And most importantly, you are a safe place for your cat.

You smell like “home,” so it’s only natural for your kitty to choose your lap (or belly, or chest, or shoulders) to curl up and relax.

That said, there are a few “dealmakers or deal-breakers” when it comes to getting your kitty to cuddle.

So today, I'm going to explain exactly what you can do to encourage your cat to sit on your lap (and what will likely scare them off.)

Your cat’s cuddling “dealmakers & deal-breakers”

Dealmaker: Soft, cozy clothes

Your kitty can’t resist a warm, cozy bed, and when you wear cuddly fabrics, like fleece or cotton...

It’s an open invitation for your furry pal to curl up on your lap.

Deal-breaker: Hard surfaces

Pants with prominent zippers, buckles, or large buttons can interrupt snuggle time with your cat.

These hard materials can feel rough and uncomfortable for your furry pal’s sensitive paws and skin, and may prevent them from cuddling with you.

Deal-breaker: “Loud” clothing

I’m talking about noisy clothing like nylon track suits, raincoats, or faux leathers. If the outfit you’re wearing swishes and squeaks when you move…

It will sound extra loud to your kitty’s sensitive ears.

This can interrupt their relaxation time, and discourage them from sitting on your lap.

Dealmaker OR Deal-breaker: Strong scents

Your cat’s sense of smell is remarkable, and this can work in your favor or against you.

Meaning, if you smell like something your cat loves, such as treats, catnip, or simply you…

Then your furry pal is very likely to come say hello and snuggle.

However, if you smell unfamiliar, like if you’re trying a new perfume — your cat may be reluctant to come cuddle.

But rest assured, as soon as you’re back to smelling like your old self, your kitty will be ready for snuggle time.


So there you have it…

These tips can come in handy if you have a friend who’d prefer NOT to snuggle with cats (maybe they have allergies.)

You can give your unfortunate friend a few tips on what to wear and do in order to deter your cat from sitting on their lap when they come over.

But for you, these common “deal-

makers or deal-breakers” can help you encourage your cat to be more affectionate and comfortable than ever.

I hope you and your furry friend have a wonderful day, with plenty of cuddle time and relaxation.

To you and your best friend,

Dr. Marty